Monday, July 21, 2008

Dating a wanna be thugged out toilet brush

First, I would like to ask for some advice, it would mean a lot. What would you do if you were dating a thugged out toilet brush?? I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six months and it is tearing me up on the inside. I am so confused is what it is right now with me. I discovered that he has baby moma drama up the coolu and he lives with his ex-girlfriend. Now that I know the truth our relationship has gone to the toilet. I guess that why I beat myself up a bit, because I am in love with him. He has hurt me so badly with his lies and trying to play the duck in the middle. Need your advice ASAP!

7 comments:

Darin Williams said...

Well from a guys point of view I really think he is trying to be a sneaky like kinda player. He wants you just as well as you want him because if he didnt he wouldnt have stuck around for six months.The lies etc. is another thing he has to be mature about.Lies wont get you no where at all. it takes a man to tell a lie but is he really a man when its is time for the consequences. But about the baby mama drama??? Now thats a thing he has to be a man about and cut her off.

nissy said...

Hi Darin, thank you so much for your imput from a man's point of view. I really admire the honesty in your response. The baby moma drama has been around before we met, so I think that he has to man up a lil bit more to deal with that issue. The lies, tells me that he has a lot of growing up to do.

grc230 said...

How has a hurt you? First of all don't date a thug! :|

nissy said...

Hi grc230, he hurt me because he have too many loose ends and no closure to his past relationships.

IS HE MR.RIGHT??? said...

HEY AUNT T JUST PASSING TROUGH TO SHOW YOU SOME LOVE!AFTER READING YOUR COMMENT ON THE BABY MOMMA ISSUE I AGREE WITH YOUR OPINION AND I DO TOO FEEL THAT HE SHOULD MAN UP AND DEAL WITH THE PROBLEMS, AFTER ALL IT TAKES TWO TO MAKE A BABY AND A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF HIS RESPONSIBILITIES.ALSO,IF HE CAN'T DEAL WITH THE BABY MOMMA DRAMA MAYBE HE SHOULD DO WHAT HE GOTTA DO SO HE WANT HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT..LOL!!!

nissy said...

Hi Visha, I thought that he was my Mr. Right, but how could I have been so wrong?? We have talked about marriage but coming from him. I guess it was all lip service. I kinda figured it out he like problems, that's why he doesn't deal with the baby moma drama. He feeds into it like hot oatmeal. Visha, thanks for passing through showing your aunt t love. Talk to you later :)

reachingabetterplace said...

I am sooo not qualified to give an opinion BUT I will repeat this quote from perhaps the most inspiring video on YouTube.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ji5_MqicxSo

'When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do. It’s that simple. It’s that easy.'

Richard
www.reachingabetterplace.com